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He has a lot of emotional baggage. Tell him he needs to work things out if he ever wants to be with you again. His fear of commitment for one. His fear of divorce, You aren't his parents and he should realize that. His parents had their problems,Now his fear is causing you problems.. All his excuses are just a load of crap. Tell him you need a man who can be there for you, and not run away like a scared little child , Every time he has a small problem. His fears of the past are ruining your relationship,So he needs to grow up or get out!! Sometimes tough love is the only answer, And he needs a wake up call!! Tell him if he wants you, He's going to have to earn you back. Enough games, It's time to commit or go home. Hope that helped, And best of luck..