Jehovah's Witnesses only:Question about my disfellowshipped husband?

My husband and I got married when we were disfellowshipped because of immorality, We had a child together and the plan was to make things right by getting married so that we could both get reinstated. Well we've been married for 2 years now and I made serious efforts to come back and was reinstated, have been for a year. my husband however has not been, and despite the fact that he goes to most of the meetings with me, he has made no effort to write a letter of reinstatement. He believes it is the truth and he is married to me now so does not have the temptation of fornication holding him back. His attitude is so so however, if he misses a meeting it doesn't bother him and the elders keep trying to meet with us and he has canceled twice. But he says he plans to get reinstated sometime, but It seems like it will never happen. He claims he is taking his time, but why? We know the end is near and why would he want to hessitate if he is committing no sin to hold him back? He knows it would be better for the both of us to have Jehovah in our marriage fully, and he knows I worry about him and want him to get back to Jehovah. I don't get it, we have had many problems in our marriage and it is so hard to be in the truth alone espeacially when trying to raise my baby girl in a household that worships Jehovah, I can't get him to do personal study and he just doesn't seem concerned about it. It's breaking my heart and I know it is his decision, I just want the best for him and me. And anyone who wants to say something negative about Jehovah's witnesses "disfellowshipping" please save it, he knows why he is, he doesn't feel unloved by the congregation and he doesn't believe in any other religion.